I have constantly pondered what a new person or new personality might require in order to bury what has been previously acted upon or done—simply those acts that have shaped a person, starting with influences and criteria that lie outside of oneself, all the way to those lines of reasoning (referred to as a person’s natural acts) where you know full well that a person is clearly being insincere by adopting a certain stance; a key turning point involving a personal transformation, which may stem from someone you know, an idol, a role model, an ideal, among many others.
Being a clear-minded and principled person leads to the ability to freely steer the development of a self-sufficient, adequate, and fully independent individual, without the desperate urge to resort to the concepts of “adoption” or “adaptation”; this, in contrast, could be seen as someone incapable of fending for themselvesthe famous label (“lacking personality”) but by turning to an autonomous philosophy, you pursue a satisfying reality, where you yourself present vast seas of intellect to truly unravel the anomalies and oddities that define a person’s characteristics. It is worth noting that one should not underestimate the source of inspiration, since it makes the discrepancy between “adaptation” and the resonance that gives rise to inspiration very clear; taking prototypes of ideals and applying them to one’s own life is utterly enriching: because in and of itself, you experience You may experience the same things from a different perspective until the next ones come along, but we must be actively aware of where we’re heading when we start drawing inspiration from something outside ourselves; we must always stay focused on whether that idea or so called path is truly right for us or our lifestyle.
“Work hard in silence, let your success be your noise.”
FRANK OCEAN
For the most part, reflection is the enemy, but I believe it’s our tool for perfecting what we detest most: unfortunately, at first, we tend to choose what’s most visually appealing within a socially favorable category. I believe I would adopt the premise “look at the inside before the outside,” viewing it favorably from the perspective that the inside is what reveals and expresses what’s happening within; nevertheless, a person built upon their own essence rather than on rubble—is truly preferable. Humans have flaws from birth; that’s where each person’s unique differences come from—everyone is different in their own way. That’s what specifically defines us as something that doesn’t come from a template. Being and inspiring others is good, but we mustn’t let ourselves be swayed so easily; we must truly work on being ourselves and not just a “copy.” Always remember that those who do not try do not gain the experience that can lead to a lesson or insight while striving for a “victory”; that is why “winning” often serves as a reminder that the goal is the result of the process, effort, and understanding.